When Personal Problems Hinder an Employee’s Performance
January 10th, 2012As one of the top staffing agencies in Harrisonburg and Culpeper, we understand that employees will face challenges unrelated to the job that could impact their performance at work. And with the economy still uncertain, along with the high cost of living, many people today are facing some serious situations, which can be hard to leave outside the door when they get to their jobs.
Some signs employees are highly stressed include:
- Calling in sick more and more
- Coming in late regularly
- Spending an excessive amount of time on the phone to deal with personal issues
- Getting defensive
- Having tearful or emotional outbursts
- Showing signs of anxiety
- Negative changes in relationships with colleagues
Clearly if you see one of these signs once in a while, it may not be a reason to act. But when you see evidence of several of the signs above, and they’ve been ongoing, then how can you help your employee cope – and get back on track?
Ask the question.
If you have an employee who’s usually extremely mellow and all of sudden is having emotional outbursts, then ask, “Are you ok?” Maybe they are having personal problems at home that are impacting their behavior at work, or perhaps they’re just stressed about a big project they’re working on and simply need an afternoon off. But you don’t know unless you ask.
Keep boundaries.
While you want to show compassion, you’re also not a counselor. So if your employee unloads on you – that he or she is having marital problems or has a sick child – try to keep some semblance of boundaries. That said, as the boss, look to see if there’s something you can do to make their workload less stressful, like pushing back a deadline or re-assigning a task to someone else. If your employee is facing a serious health issue at home, then they may also be eligible for a leave through the Family and Medical Leave Act.
Be careful about what you say.
If it seems like an employee is facing an issue like depression, don’t say something like “You seem depressed.” If you eventually wind up terminating the employ, they could sue you under the Americans With Disabilities Act, which covers issues like depression, by claiming they were fired due to their psychological disability.
Don’t be a pushover.
When you have an employee who’s dealing with a serious problem at all, it’s natural to be concerned. But don’t go overboard with your sympathy by trying to alleviate any fears they have about work; for instance saying something like: “don’t worry, your job is safe.” Should you have to terminate their employment down the road, they can use those kinds of statements as evidence in a claim.
As one of the top staffing agencies in Harrisonburg and Culpeper, we understand that having an employee with personal problems can certainly present a challenge – especially when it’s a top performer. Sometimes all that’s needed is some time away from work to handle the problem; other times, though, you may have an employee who is simply unable to separate their home life from their work life and is therefore unable to deliver the performance you expect.

