6 Major Mistakes People Make at Office Holiday Parties
December 21st, 2010Offensive comments. Bad manners. Inappropriate attire. The latest college party? Nope. We’re talking about office holiday parties. As a Lynchburg employment agency, we’ve heard it all. But when it comes to attending your company’s holiday party, you should really think of the event as an extension of your workday – and act accordingly. That doesn’t mean you can’t let loose a little, but it does mean to avoid embarrassing blunders like these:
1.) Not attending.
You’re busy. We get it. But guess what? So is everyone else at the end of the year. And unless you have a really good excuse for not attending, skipping out on your Lynchburg employer’s holiday party makes you look bad. You’re signaling that the party – and by extension, the company – isn’t important to you and that you’re not a team player. So suck it up and make an appearance.
2.) Sticking with your office buddies.
Of course you want to chat with your office buddies at the holiday party. But don’t devote 100% of your time to them. The holiday office party provides you with a terrific opportunity to network with other employees that you don’t work with regularly, as well as connect with your boss and other company managers. This is a great time to make a positive impression!
3.) Getting drunk.
Have a cocktail. Have two cocktails. But don’t drink much more than that. You don’t want to lose control and say or do something that you’ll live to regret. If you don’t heed this advice and you do drink too much and behave badly, then apologize the next day to whomever you offended. Don’t just ignore your bad behavior and hope it went unnoticed.
4) Bringing uninvited guests.
Don’t assume that your spouse is invited to your office holiday party. If they’ve been invited in the past, but the invitation doesn’t specify this year, then ask your boss.
5) Dressing suggestively.
Regardless of how festive the occasion, dressing provocatively for a work party is a major no-no. Not only is it distracting, but it could also harm your credibility because it can impact how others perceive you. So whatever you wear, make sure it’s tasteful and appropriate for the occasion.
6) Bad manners.
Nothing can torpedo a career faster than lack of manners. So keep the negative comments to yourself. Don’t be loud, rude, or offensive. If you drink too much and think you might say something stupid, then excuse yourself from the party. Be polite and gracious. Also, be sure to thank your boss for the party before leaving.
What about you? What are some of the biggest mistakes you’ve seen at office holiday parties? We want to know!
The team at Adams & Garth would also like to wish you a safe and happy holiday season!

